Day #6:
My train lurched in Lao Cai Station at 6 AM. I woke up from my deep sleep at around 5:55 AM! Wham! Just in time to stick a toothbrush in my mouth, while cramming my silk liner hurriedly into my day pack. Being a solo traveler separated from my trekking group, the last thing I wanted was to be the last one off the train and left! My Swiss roommates were further behind schedule than me, though. No one was prepared for a quick evacuation. Sleep was good, despite the violent rocking and intermittent screeching of wheels against the tracks.
The #1 disadvantage of solo travel:
Duh, I was alone. Filing off the train in a backpacker’s fog, I searched the sea of backpackers for “familiar” faces. Nothing. No one held a sign with my name or the name of our group (the guy in the photo above was from my return trip!). I stood at the entrance gate, panic entering my bloodstream as people started to leave. I was the only traveler in my group who was solo– who would remember to look for me? A Korean family… 2 strapping young Australian lads … an older gangly Frenchman accompanied by a quiet elderly Vietnamese friend… These were the last faces I looked at and remembered. My memory scanned the crowd of strangers. In Korea, Caucasians are easy to spot; here in Lao Cai, between a flood of Caucasian backpackers and tan-skinned Vietnamese, I decided the Koreans would be the ones to look for! The Aussies were second in line as they were tall and the gangly Frenchman… pbbt. This was my genius logic at its best…
“Chincha?!”
(aka Korean for an exasperated Really?! That’s what I say when I’m overwhelmed these days…)
Was I forgotten? Abandoned?! The crowd was thinning out and it was clear to me there were no trekking tour gatherings. This was some joke– within 10 minutes of arrival into the train station, my group had disappeared as if in a John Carpenter film!
An hour outside of Sapa, I was about to cash my hopes in to hire a cab to God-Knows-Where-Sapa (I didn’t even have a hotel address…), when out popped the Korean father of the family that was in my van back in Hanoi. He came back to look for me. Whew– God Bless Koreans! I boarded the mini-van bus and buckled in for the drive to Sapa.
Entering Sapa, it’s hard to imagine it’s the entry point for trekking and hill tribes. The welcome mat of the town is a huge lake, surrounded by buildings reminiscent of a French-Swiss village. But drive deeper into the heart of the town, the vibe changes to a hippie/hill tribe backpacker charm.
(Above) P.Cau May road (restaurants, cafes, clothes, massage and souvenir shops) ;
(Below) Restaurant on P.Cau May
7AM-ish:
we arrived at the Emotion Hotel- it was trekking tour central! Our trek wouldn’t start until 9A or 10AM and this was where we’d store our bags in the meanwhile. Though we arrived as a group, each of our trekking packages were different– we’d be mixing and mingling groups, throughout. Awesome! More travelers to meet. My itinerary for today: trek Cat Cat Village (which was a short trail) and return to Sapa for a free day of sightseeing.
The Korean family’s 13year old boy invited me to have breakfast with his family. My first inclination was to decline, until I saw the breakfast they were preparing- Choco pies, a slice of apple and some water. Many Koreans have kind and generous hearts and will share what they have with others. I couldn’t refuse. I pulled up a chair and spoke some of my mangled Korean with them. Ironically, the mother was a principal of an elementary school on Jeju Island and her husband was it’s P.E. teacher! Their two sons were in elementary and spoke very good English for their age.

A Room for one?
Being a solo traveler did incur a single supplement fee… $3 more than the normal cost! Gotta love my budget tours! My digs? On D Phan Si/Fansipan Road, I was put in the Cat Cat Hotel. My room had a shared outdoor deck and an awesome view, despite the fact another hotel partially blocked it. At night, it was especially gorgeous with the misty mountains outlined against the night skies and… stars! My room was clean, I had hot water and after my hotel experience in HCMC, it was a definite luxury! In actually, it was a 3-star hotel, pretty close to a Marriott in size and quality. And if one bed weren’t enough, I had three! Tres chic!
(Above) My Hotel– The Cat Cat Hotel; (Below) Three beds for only one person– Me! I took the queen-sized bed; (Bottom) View from my hotel. Sorry, I forgot to pan to the side with the actual view, but this view still rocks nonetheless.
Minority hilltribe groups
In Sapa, the Black Hmong women and children are everywhere, stalking tourist hotels to doggedly selling their wares. “You Buy” and “Buy from me” are their cheer. If you buy from one child, beware… you’ll tempt followers who want you to patron their products as well. Tip: Never answer a tribes person with a “Maybe“, unless you mean it. They’ll follow you until you purchase something.
In my early morning walk along D Phan Si Road, above the Sapa Market, I came across an upstairs shop of crafts by the Black Hmong & Red Dzao tribes. Initially, it appeared to me like a sweat shop in disarray, but on close look, the apparel and bags sold there seemed of genuine quality and pride. Perfect– I love the Hmong fashion and decided to buy a Hmong vest and belt when I met Leh, a Hmong who spoke English with a southern drawl and who gave me the impression that Hmong clothes might be able to be pulled off, if carried with a bit of a funky Williamsburg vibe.
Leh. I bought a belt from her, but eventually bought a vest like the one
she’s wearing. (It’s a body vest, not the sleeves)
(Above) Black Hmong Elders; (Below) The elder woman in the middle shows me the hemp string they use to stitch their crafts with. Notice how her fingertips are stained blue?
A tip when purchasing hill tribe crafts:
You might notice how many older Hmong women have blue-stained hands. It’s from the indigo dye they use in their craft work! The Hmong make beautifully colorful crafts; unfortunately, the dye in them is not set. Thus, in purchasing these items, you must:
1) keep them separate from your clothes and
2) set the dye before you wear/use any of them
Why? The moment it gets wet, the ink will stain whatever it touches. Take warning from my travel friend, David (below), a Parisian with a great sense of humor, he wore one of the Hmong belts as a bandana on our trek and proved that indigo dye theory correct.
(Above) David’s bandana mark after several scrubbings.
(Above) A 5 minute walk to the Main Square produced more hill tribe sellers with more average crafts ranging from bags, wallets and pillow covers. (Below) Tribe women lay their crafts out to sell.
What to do in Sapa
Sapa is a small hill station town, but it’s culturally rich and has breathtaking mountain-fresh views! Once there, you’ll easily understand what the hype is all about. Other than seeing Sapa by trek adventure, renting a motorbike is another viable option. You can check out Sapa Square, Sapa Market, the Radio Tower (for a great view of the town) or you can chill out the cafes and restaurants. Shops selling tobacco, trekking clothes and souvenir crafts from the hill tribes will help you burn your dong, but nothing beats a good massage! Foot and body massages can be gotten for $6/hour and the Vietnamese at making your feet and body feel like it has wings! It’s easy to get addicted.
Lastly, I read that the food in Sapa bats eye-to-eye with Hanoi. So far, it’s the best food I’ve had my entire trip! The food was fresh, made with care and well-flavored. Below is my lunch at a cafe. Fresh tomato soup made from scratch. Absolutely delicious!
A bit of a crap picture but that’s one of the rockin’est veggie sandwiches I’ve had in the past 6 months! A triple decker cucumber and cheese sandwich.Yum!
Next up… Cat Cat Village & Sapa Market

















Your pictures are great. They tell the whole story with little need for captions. It looks like postcards. P.S. you need Mommy to look at these.
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Christine Ka'aloa Reply:
September 3rd, 2010 at 2:03 pm
@ Papa: Thanks. Glad you got my postcards, cause I’ve been horrible about sending them now that we have internet and all. I’m glad you can share part of my journey!
@Laura: Sapa was the highlight of my trip. Fresh air, mountains, mellow vibe… It was very calming and simply wonderful.
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Sapa is GORGEOUS!!
I really love the Cat Cat and its view
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Poor Dave and his stained head. Blue is the worst too. It never comes out of anything. You are funny, Grrrl.
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Christine Ka'aloa Reply:
September 3rd, 2010 at 2:07 pm
@Chance: He had a good sense of humor; he said if nothing else, he’d give the village people a good laugh for the day! Fellow travelers can be such a hoot– you never know what they’ll say or do. One thing you can expect, someone’s bound to stumble, fumble or add to your travel story! ha ha…
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Got lots of great info from your blog. It’s great. Am thinking of traveling there this Nov with my 9-year old. Appreciate if you can comment if it is safe. Thks. Kitty.
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Christine Ka'aloa Reply:
September 4th, 2010 at 2:59 pm
@Kitty: Thanks- glad you got something out of it.=-) Vietnam seems to be a well-traveled country, much like Thailand, but in friendliness, more like NYC. I saw some families there and lots of couples. Unless you go way off the beaten path, you can’t avoid crossing the path of other tourists and this was probably, for me, one of the more disappointing aspects. But hence, why there are also a LOT of budget tours. Vietnam on the whole, seemed pretty safe ; as a solo female traveler, I had no problem going around by myself, even at night. But they do have a theft problem, which I’ll eventually touch upon in my upcoming blogs. No physical violence but you HAVE to pay attention to your belongings and “be street smart”. Stuff like money & cameras held out in plain sight or loosely may tempt a snatching if you’re not paying attention. When I was there, I came across at least 4 incidences of theft or purse/wallet snatching. I wouldn’t let that stop you from going with your son or for that to kill the fun. Just know that’s a vulnerability of Vietnam and be proactive about it. I’ll eventually try to list some tips that got me through fine.
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Christine Ka'aloa Reply:
September 4th, 2010 at 3:35 pm
@Kitty: BTW– Just realized you posted this on my Sapa blog. Sapa was actually my highlight of Vietnam and I definitely would recommend it to others! It’s smaller, so the theft wasn’t high like it was in the larger cities. The minority tribes will cluster around you to get you to buy something, but they’re pretty safe.
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