Until you become an expat, it never occurs to you how much you take your daily lifestyle for granted.
Only after living abroad, do you realize that culture shock comes in daily life-sized capsules called language barriers; and eventually, it wears on you, mimicking your inability to do the simplest things.
Do I feel stupid when a store clerk or bank teller has to translate a form for me, when I’m making a transaction or signing up for a store point card? Of course, I have a master’s degree! Yet, in Korea I’m illiterate.
To an expat living in a new country, it’s the everyday, mundane things which quickly become your greatest enemies.
Dealing with Language Barriers Abroad:
12 Things that Slay an Expat
Coming to Korea, I didn’t calculate the fact that the language barrier might pose a high unscalable wall in the daily workings of my lifestyle and enjoyment. To work around my weakness, I gravitate towards products with pictures and universal symbols to narrow my down my guesswork.
But that’s still not enough. Living in non-English speaking country like Korea is like trying to figure out tiny puzzles on a daily basis. It’s all trial and error and for every one step forward, you’ll feel like you’re taking five steps back. Grappling with this type of long-term culture shock isn’t easy. This affects my daily survival.
But for each struggle, there’s the air of humor. It’s a frustrating challenge and yet, it’s a much more entertaining life than dealing with the dreariness of a lifestyle you’ve taken for granted. My life is anything, but boring.
Do you have the right tool for the right job?
I was running low on shampoo. Thankfully, the store had a recognizable U.S. brand- Head & Shoulders . But was this bottle, shampoo or conditioner? Without knowing exactly which it was, I bought it anyways.
It took me close to two weeks to realize that the funky new Korean non-lathering shampoo was not shampoo. It was conditioner.
Tip: Some Korean words are in Konglish and are pronounced close to English. It just happens to be written in Hangul. If you have a basic ability to read hangul, it helps. Sounding a word out may lead to an English word, like the example below.
Are you using bleach, detergent or fabric softener to do your laundry? Aha! Until now, choices didn’t have large consequences for me.
I’ve not accidentally bleached my clothes, yet but I would love to use fabric softener soon. …If only I knew what fabric softener looks like.
With foreign countries, you also never know how strong or weak their products can be in comparison to the U.S.
I bought the all-purpose cleanser to clean my apartment and after five minutes of using it without gloves, I discovered it was not doing good things to my skin. Being able to read warnings and caution labels would help.
Directions and usage: Can you live with information deficiency?
Skin Care Products & Vitamins or Medicine
In Asia, many skin care ingredients have whitening chemicals in the products. If you have dark skin or are Caucasian, finding a skin product without whitening may be your barrier to hurdle. Not mine. I’m Asian and I’m fine with being lighter.
But I take great delight in reading about the miracle skin healing powers each skin care product possesses. I love asking store clerks their advice. But in Korea, there’s different terminology for skin care products: tonics, emulsions, essences, cremes, etc… Of course, labels are all in Korean, so I always need to find an English-speaking clerk to try to translate it for me. It’s not easy. For five minutes, I go back and forth, miming and trying to pick out recognizable words for us to connect on (it’s a lot of effort),… only to walk away with the obvious knowledge that all those bottles “make wrinkles better”. Not to mention, I’m not always sure how to use it. It’s definitely cut down my time in skin care shopping.
What about knowing how to use your household appliances? Ever wonder what your washing machine directions might mean? While icons are helpful, some of them only beg more questions.
Who needs to do laundry anyways!
Tip: Household appliances, gather a list of things you don’t know how to use and have a Korean walk you through your apartment explaining them to you.
Have you ever scribbled off directions for a foreigner and thought nothing of it? I never thought of how legible my handwriting is until now. I don’t know if there’s a cursive or scripted way of writing Hangul, but one thing is certain– my reading skills in Hangul require crystal clear legibility and big spaces between characters!
How important is it to know size and styles?
I spent ten minutes assessing sanitary pads and tampons, pressing the packaging down over the product… hard. I was trying to see through the package. Would it fit my size, flow and scented needs? I make my best educated guess, only to discover at home, my guess wasn’t very educated. I bought a sanitary pad the size of a diaper!
On a good note, it was a good discovery. During heavy flow evenings, I don’t have to sleep with a towel under me or on my side.
Tip: Large stores like Lotte can occasionally have aisles and some products translated into English.
Do you need to know what you’re ordering… or eating?
Food Menus at Restaurants
I’ve no photo of Korean restaurant menus to show you yet. Why? It pains me merely to look at one more all-in-Hangul (aka the Korean character) restaurants. Of course, being Korea, they’re everywhere. What was I thinking?
Yes, I actually can read hangul… slowly. It takes me time to sound out each character to read an entirety of a word. And even if I do pass first base in reading, I probably won’t know the meaning of what I’m reading.
What’s in the product? Are any unusual animals used? Butter or lard?… Being a vegetarian and a weight watcher, I like to know what’s in my food. The frozen mandoo that’s on sale… do they have bits of meat, seafood or chicken in them? Pictures on packages are deceiving.
Attempting to read ingredient labels on packages, is like playing word search. Your search is only good if you know what you’re looking for.
Would you recognize a utility bill?
Utility bills and important documents
Sounds like a dumb question, right? A bill (I think) just came in the mail today– no envelope, just a folded paper with a wallpaper of hangul and a bunch of numbers to make my brain go mushy. One familiar universal graphic makes me assume it’s my “gas bill”, because it shows charts like a metter reading. Still, I flipped the bill over and over several times for more clues– for the exact dollar amount I was to pay… and to whom.
My gas bill
Would you know how to pay for your bills?
Korea is a cash-based society, so you either pay via cash, bank transfers or automatic bill pay. I go to my bank’s website and while there’s an “English version”, the actual functions on the menus are all in Korean… which defeats the purpose of having an English version website!
My co-teacher had to help me. So she registered me with Giro (an Korean automatic bill payment site). She started speed-clicking through website menus, asking me for my:
• Bank Account information
• Resident Alien Card number
• Banking Password
• Banking Secret Pin number
… the list goes on… click-click-click!
And you know what… I gave it to her! I could’ve paid for apartment or new car for her and I wouldn’t be wiser. All this disclosure of very personal information (making one vulnerable to identity theft in the United States) is something you’ll have to get used to in Korea, when you don’t know the language. Korea for the most part, acts on an honor system. But still.. you never know.
How do you work at your job?
The Korean workplace
There isn’t a computer or software program I can’t figure out and navigate within a day or two. I’m good with computers. The problem is that my computer, like everything else here, only speaks Korean. Sure, I can navigate and use Microsoft Word and Powerpoint… if the software is in English!
Tip: Learn keyboard shortcuts.
Universal icon buttons are one godsend to alleviate the frustration. But what about those annoying “error” alerts that keep popping up on my screen? My solution: just keep clicking on buttons until the “error” boxes go away. It may be possible I’m downloading a Trojan Horse virus. But I wouldn’t know.
Did you say– Go into Settings and switch the language settings? Sure thing. Now, part of my computer knows a bit of English; unfortunately, it’s a very small and useless part and as a result, my computer now has a language barrier with the Korean printer, which refuses to acknowledge it’s signal!
Advice: Bring in your own laptop !
Do you have a medical emergency?
Going to the doctor or pharmacy
Dropping in at the store pharmacist, when you’re suffering an ailment feels like visiting a witch doctor. You have to trust implicitly, what the pharmacist gives you, as well as instructions on how to take it. That’s assuming your doc has understood what you were saying in mime and broken Korean. In many cases, expat teachers have had to take their co-teachers to the hospital or pharmacy, as translators.
I don’t ask– I just swallow the pill and pray to the Korean God that I’ll see the light of tomorrow.
And with all that, sometimes you just wanna to scream… “Just Show Me Pictures!!!”