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		By: cleinmari		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Oct 2013 13:33:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://grrrltraveler.com/returning-from-a-gap-year/comment-page-1/#comment-5652&quot;&gt;Christine Ka&#039;aloa&lt;/a&gt;.

@Christine: I can so feel you. I already felt the social pressure about finding a decent job and supposebly having to know what the f*** I want to do with my life and so on. Now I have been to South Korea for one month and people from back home, when they are not asking if I am still alive because I didn&#039;t write a new post in my blog yet, already keep continuing with the old tune. Sometimes it makes me really afraid to think that I might not be strong enough to get out of these enormous social maelstrom called &quot;western life&quot;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://grrrltraveler.com/returning-from-a-gap-year/comment-page-1/#comment-5652">Christine Ka&#8217;aloa</a>.</p>
<p>@Christine: I can so feel you. I already felt the social pressure about finding a decent job and supposebly having to know what the f*** I want to do with my life and so on. Now I have been to South Korea for one month and people from back home, when they are not asking if I am still alive because I didn&#8217;t write a new post in my blog yet, already keep continuing with the old tune. Sometimes it makes me really afraid to think that I might not be strong enough to get out of these enormous social maelstrom called &#8220;western life&#8221;</p>
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		By: Christine Ka'aloa		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Christine Ka'aloa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jul 2013 09:09:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://grrrltraveler.com/returning-from-a-gap-year/comment-page-5/#comment-5705&quot;&gt;Mikaela Swedlund&lt;/a&gt;.

@Mikaela: Two years will make it even harder... ha ha. Wow, I think if I lived in Germany for a year, I&#039;d probably want to stay in that bubble for a long time before dealing with the U.S. The lifestyle values are such a shift, I imagine! Asia will produce another shift. I think it&#039;s amazing you&#039;re experiencing both ends.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://grrrltraveler.com/returning-from-a-gap-year/comment-page-5/#comment-5705">Mikaela Swedlund</a>.</p>
<p>@Mikaela: Two years will make it even harder&#8230; ha ha. Wow, I think if I lived in Germany for a year, I&#8217;d probably want to stay in that bubble for a long time before dealing with the U.S. The lifestyle values are such a shift, I imagine! Asia will produce another shift. I think it&#8217;s amazing you&#8217;re experiencing both ends.</p>
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		By: Mikaela Swedlund		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mikaela Swedlund]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jul 2013 02:53:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is so true! I lived in Germany for a year between high school and college, and adjusting to life back home definitely took getting used too. I can only imagine that it will be even more difficult going from Asia to home, than from Europe to home. Good thing I have another two years to prepare for that!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is so true! I lived in Germany for a year between high school and college, and adjusting to life back home definitely took getting used too. I can only imagine that it will be even more difficult going from Asia to home, than from Europe to home. Good thing I have another two years to prepare for that!</p>
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		By: Josie Leung		</title>
		<link>https://grrrltraveler.com/returning-from-a-gap-year/comment-page-5/#comment-5704</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Josie Leung]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Mar 2013 10:32:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Agreed! I studied college in the states and am on a gap year traveling now. It&#039;s always interesting to see Americans leave their country for the first time and how they react to cultural shocks]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Agreed! I studied college in the states and am on a gap year traveling now. It&#8217;s always interesting to see Americans leave their country for the first time and how they react to cultural shocks</p>
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		By: Josie Leung		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Josie Leung]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Mar 2013 10:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Agreed! I studied in the states for college and am on a gap year travelling now. It&#039;s always interesting to see Americans leave their country for the first time and having this cultural shock]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Agreed! I studied in the states for college and am on a gap year travelling now. It&#8217;s always interesting to see Americans leave their country for the first time and having this cultural shock</p>
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		By: Olivia - young on the road		</title>
		<link>https://grrrltraveler.com/returning-from-a-gap-year/comment-page-4/#comment-5702</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Olivia - young on the road]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2013 19:55:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I love politicly incorrect posts! You are too true. I&#039;m from Sweden, and we do live in excess as well. We have too much of everything. The world is unfair, yet we are still all unwilling to give. Essentially, why don&#039;t we all give away everything that isn&#039;t required for our ultimate survival? We spend money. On travel. It IS selfish, yet humans are selfish creatures and we are all the main characters of our own lives.

Anyhow, great post!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love politicly incorrect posts! You are too true. I&#8217;m from Sweden, and we do live in excess as well. We have too much of everything. The world is unfair, yet we are still all unwilling to give. Essentially, why don&#8217;t we all give away everything that isn&#8217;t required for our ultimate survival? We spend money. On travel. It IS selfish, yet humans are selfish creatures and we are all the main characters of our own lives.</p>
<p>Anyhow, great post!</p>
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		By: Paul		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Paul]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Feb 2013 04:44:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I agree with a lot of what you say.  For me it was that same realisation that you&#039;re not the same person.  You know how it&#039;s possible to live a very fulfilling life that&#039;s so different than you could have conceived before you travelled, and now you&#039;re surrounded by people who just don&#039;t get it.  It can be very frustrating.  Makes you want to change the world and really do something productive with your life.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with a lot of what you say.  For me it was that same realisation that you&#8217;re not the same person.  You know how it&#8217;s possible to live a very fulfilling life that&#8217;s so different than you could have conceived before you travelled, and now you&#8217;re surrounded by people who just don&#8217;t get it.  It can be very frustrating.  Makes you want to change the world and really do something productive with your life.</p>
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		By: Christine Ka'aloa		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Christine Ka'aloa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Feb 2013 01:17:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://grrrltraveler.com/returning-from-a-gap-year/comment-page-4/#comment-5699&quot;&gt;@LifeLessOrdinry&lt;/a&gt;.

@LifeLessOrdinary: Thanks. I&#039;m sure your psych thesis must be very interesting. I can relate to what you said. You definitely see how much you&#039;ve grown and changed your way of thinking. The question is which will you ultimately choose. From your blog name maybe, I can guesstimate what direction you went. ;-)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://grrrltraveler.com/returning-from-a-gap-year/comment-page-4/#comment-5699">@LifeLessOrdinry</a>.</p>
<p>@LifeLessOrdinary: Thanks. I&#8217;m sure your psych thesis must be very interesting. I can relate to what you said. You definitely see how much you&#8217;ve grown and changed your way of thinking. The question is which will you ultimately choose. From your blog name maybe, I can guesstimate what direction you went. 😉</p>
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		By: @LifeLessOrdinry		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 10:50:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Great post, thanks for that! I&#039;ve been through reverse culture shock several times and it helps to read others experienced. I even ended up doing my psych thesis on it...and at least came to understand how important the process actually is and how it can actually help you grow and thrive even more. Thank god too, it&#039;s such an uncomfortable process to go through it&#039;s nice to know something good can come if it! Wishes to you that it get easier everyday and lots of good things gained!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post, thanks for that! I&#8217;ve been through reverse culture shock several times and it helps to read others experienced. I even ended up doing my psych thesis on it&#8230;and at least came to understand how important the process actually is and how it can actually help you grow and thrive even more. Thank god too, it&#8217;s such an uncomfortable process to go through it&#8217;s nice to know something good can come if it! Wishes to you that it get easier everyday and lots of good things gained!</p>
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		By: Christine Ka'aloa		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Christine Ka'aloa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 02:10:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://grrrltraveler.com/returning-from-a-gap-year/comment-page-1/#comment-5697&quot;&gt;Megan&lt;/a&gt;.

@Megan: I think you actually meant to comment on my Monk post. Not sure how it ended up here. Are you in Thailand or a different country?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://grrrltraveler.com/returning-from-a-gap-year/comment-page-1/#comment-5697">Megan</a>.</p>
<p>@Megan: I think you actually meant to comment on my Monk post. Not sure how it ended up here. Are you in Thailand or a different country?</p>
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