When I hear of “midnight runs” and English teachers leaving Korea in 6 months after their start, it wasn’t hard for me to believe. The statistics are there and ESL forums are littered with disgruntled and fed up NETs. I’m on my seventh month in Korea and my Facebook updates are splashed daily with the spouts of frustrated EPIKers: “Enough is enough!”.
As one fellow EPIKer said– “Honeymoon Finishee!”
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When the honeymoon fades…
Coping with culture shock is all about perspective.
Adapting to life and work in Korea isn’t easy. Even if by stroke of God, your school, apartment AND co-teacher is a dream, the odds are still against you.
Moving to a foreign country for the first time, it’s natural to experience a culture shock and sometimes, this hits below the belt. You’re not always aware when it will strike or leave you winded. A “honeymoon phase” can last, anywhere from a week to several months. Inevitably however, the reality and struggle with homesickness and adapting to a foreign environment happens; the war with that romance begins.
Living in a bad marriage for a year is a different mindset from living with it for 3 weeks to 6 months. It’s all a matter of perspective and you realize you (more…)