10 Things that Ruin your Vacation & how to recover it (READ THIS!)

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Top 10 Things that will ruin your vacation and ways to recover it.

 

 Life is a gamble, but you can minimize your chances of losing by increasing your chances of winning.

What’s the worst thing that’s ever happened to you when you were traveling? I’m talking about your worst case scenarios and things that ruin your vacation?

When I was doing my ‘Best and worst travel moments ‘ video, I realized I encountered a fair amount of worst case scenarios for a traveler.  It’s not because I’m accident prone or unlucky, but logic says, the more you travel, the greater your chances are in encountering the vast spectrum on scenarios.

A ruined vacation is an opportunity

Now I get it, for many of us there is no “do over”. Being a female solo traveler, experiencing worst-case scenarios can royally suck. This is probably the first and last time you’ll be traveling that country and you’ve saved a lot of money getting yourself there. You feel compelled to make every moment count.

 I try to focus on the adventure and the fact i’ll probably get a good travel story out of it as a weird compensation. But if I can prevent a ruined vacation or flip it around after encountering it, then I actually feel like i’m winning and coming out ahead.

I see worst case scenarios as a two sided coin, testing the metal you’re made of. On one side, you have certain defeat. On the other side, you have an opportunity to be the hero or heroine of your travel story.  Like an athlete you can survive a worst case scenario and overcome it, and gain greater travel confidence.

The outcome is shaped whether you’ll react to the situation or respond to it.   A reactor has things done to them; they live in bit of a victim mode. A responder turns the situation around so that they’re in charge of the final outcome.  They’re not satisfied with letting the world or bad people define their experiences.

Top 10 things that will ruin your vacation and ways to recover it

1.  Encountering Travel Theft

Encountering theft is usually ranked the top of worst and most feared travel experiences (next to violent crime).   Someone lifted something from your bag when you left it in your hotel/hostel. Maybe a thief slashed your purse and ran off with it or you got pickpocketed in a crowded subway. You feel violated, alone and like you’ve been punched in the stomach. It certainly can color your experience of a country. I’ve seen grown men cry.

How to deal with theft when you travel

  • Keep a carnet (a carnet is a single form that lists all items a photographer would be traveling with, it proves ownership and eliminates the need to pay taxes and deal with U.S. customs agents). I travel with a copy of my gear list (inclusive of serial numbers) for both insurance in the case I need to file a report with the police and my insurance company.
  • As soon as you encounter theft, file a Police report. While in most cases its improbably the police will apprehend the criminal, you need that police report in order to file with you travel insurance company for compensation.
  • Keep all your police report, travel documents, reciepts for what you spent as a result (and if you still have it, proof of your product receipts) for your insurance to deal with when you get home.

How to prevent theft when you travel

The best way to deal with theft when you travel is to prevent it from happening. While life is a gamble, you can minimize your chances of losing by increasing your chances of winning. Here’s tips for preventing travel theft:

2.  Getting Sick

From a bad bout of food poisoning, traveler’s diarrhea, dengue fever to drinking bad water… getting sick (and getting sick when traveling alone) really sucks.

  • Travel insurance is always a good precaution. (I like to use World Nomads.  They handle Americans and cover over 150 countries.)

  • See a travel doctor before your trip, so he can diagnose common ailments of the country, travel shots and medicines to take. I always pack an antidiarrheal & Cipro in my first aid kit.

  • Especially for solo travelers: Notify your hotel or guesthouse so they know you’re sick and are more likely to help you. They can direct you to the pharmacy or hospital.
  • If the virus or bug doesn’t work itself out within a few days, I go to the hospital, without question.

  Read my travel tips:  How to eat street food and not get sick

3. Getting Scammed

No one likes being scammed. In my Bangkok Taxi Scams video I occasionally get mean comments from male viewers who side with the taxi driver who was trying to scam me. Their response was appalling because it sounded similar to those who defend rapists. Getting scammed is exactly the same thing as someone stealing from you, with the exception, there’s manipulation, a power play, trickery, they take advantage of your naivete; and sometimes, they can even use bullying to pose a dangerous threat.

  • Trust your gut and intuition. If someone or a situation doesn’t feel right, excuse yourself immediately, unemotionally and walk away. Being a female soloist, my reliance upon gut and intuition  has grown to point my psychic abilities are stronger.
  •  I wrote a post on how to deal with scams if you want more tips.

4.  Overstaying a visa

Whether or not you have a paid flight ticket,  had your agent book a flight for you or have proof of onward travel, you will need to have a visa if a country requires it. Even if you’re merely passing through it in order to get to another country.

  • Always check the visa requirements of the country you’re traveling to.  Some countries offer visa on arrival ( you can apply and pay for a visa when you arrive), some cities/countries offer transit visas if you just have a layover in them, but most have an application process, which requires you filling out an application and taking it and your passport to an embassy.
  • Beware of “transit’ layovers.  If you have a layover, make sure you don’t need a visa in that city or country. Before people assumed that if they had a paid flight ticket to Nepal and could prove onward travel,  they would not need a transit visa in India for their layover or connecting flight. They were wrong and were sent back home, without having ever landed in Nepal. I’m not sure if the regulations in India have changed. But beware that the country you’re laying over in, doesn’t require a visa.

5. Missing your plane

You don’t know how many times I’ve had to haul ass past TSA, down the hallway to gates spread far apart, just to arrive- sweat drenched- in time for the final call of boarding.  Some people like to push their chances, by arriving at the airport one hour before takeoff.  Other times, it can’t be helped if your bus or taxi gets stuck in traffic.

  • For international flights, always make sure you’re at the airport 3 hours in advance. Domestic travel requires you arrive 2 hours in advance. But be aware,  the gate can close anywhere from 30-45 minutes before takeoff.
  • If you miss your flight, see if that airlines ticket counter can reschedule you. If you’re lucky, you might just have to pay a change fee and wait on standby for the next available flight.
  • If your flight has been delayed or arrives late and many passengers have to reschedule flights, use your mobile phone to connect with the airport WiFi to check flight schedules as you stand in the airlines’ ticket booking line.
  • You might have to buy another ticket and risk a longer layover, which can result in a night or two in that city.  See my layover guide.
  • My favorite site for airport layovers:  www.sleepinginairports.com

6. Bad Weather

There are times I feel like I travel with a raincloud over me. It can spoil a trip. Bad weather can be anything from experiencing a rainy day, a storm or god forbid, more.

  • Try your best to check in advance the weather conditions. For reasons which deal mostly with clothes packing, I always check weather statistics anywhere from a week to a month or two, depending upon my time in that country.
  • I always pack a raincoat and cheap rain poncho, which I stash in my day pack. So should  bad weather hit and you’re unprepared.
  • Revert to indoor activities, galleries, museums, concerts, even checking out shopping malls and grocery stores, etc…
  • In some cases, you might get held up for an extra day or a few. You can stay at a hotel or research airport facility options. Sleep in the airport, some have sleeping capsules, lounges or check out inexpensive accommodation options nearby. Here’s another airport layover guide.
  • Check part one of my 42 Things- I share how creative some of my accommodations have gotten for the sake of budget.

7.  Your Credit Card /Debit Card is Flagged  

Have you ever gotten your credit or debit card flagged abroad? I’m always traveling to cash-based countries, that don’t take credit cards, so I’m reliant upon my debit/ATM cards and due to my bank’s tightened security, I’m constantly getting them flagged.

  • Notify your bank and credit card company of your travel itinerary and the countries you’ll be in.
  • Always bring cash as backup (which you can change at a money exchange at the airport) and a couple of ATM/ Credit cards in the case one doesn’t work.
  • Prepaid credit cards- certain sum already on your card. Mostly in the Australia.
  • Be aware: If you’re booking accommodations and flights from the road, you might get flagged if the service provider (airlines carrier, accommodations booking site, etc…) is located in a country, which you have not listed on your travel itinerary.  For example, I was traveling between Greece and Turkey and I was making last minute arrangements for a hostel through Hostelworld. Hostelworld is actually located in Ireland, so my bank card was immediately flagged as my bank saw me making transactions in Ireland.

8. Stuck on a bad tour

Unfortunately, there’s not much you can do about being stuck on a bad day tour with a guide that does not speak your language well. But for longer tour durations, you might be able to get off your tour. <– Tips to How I Negotiated my way out of a Delhi Scam tour

  • Check the tour contract states on trip cancellations.
  • Know you probably won’t get the majority of your money back.
  • Sometimes, parts of your tour are refundable  or can be pro-rated based on the amount of time you’ve been with them and the level of discontent you’re experiencing.
  • If you are allowed to cancel or leave your tour, be prepared to wing your trip or scramble to make new bookings and plans.

9. Equipment Breakdowns

Luggage, cameras, laptops, shoes…. what happens when something primary to your travels breaks on the road?

  • Don’t take anything that you know will break soon, unless you’re prepared to spend your time shopping in that country.
  • Invest in gaffer tape or duct tape, and bring some with you. I like to wrap some gaffer tape around a pen.
  • Technology is the hardest to repair or replace on the road. Bring backup cables, chargers or secondary items if you think your tech gear might fail. I know my cameras have a way of failing on me when i travel so these days, I always pack an extra camera.
  • Don’t assume there’s a Mac or PC store.  If you do find one, know a proper repair through a main manufacturer (ie. Canon) might take a week.  Smaller certified or third party repair shops might be able to repair things in a day. Keep in mind: using un-certified third party dealers or parts might disqualify your manufacturer’s warranty!

10. Packing Mishaps

Despite how well you aspire to pack, I feel like it’s a given that travelers forget something.

  • Important documents like a passport is something you don’t want to forget. Period. Thus, I always make extra copies of my important documents, stash them in different parts of my bags and I’ll even send myself pdf versions to my phone, so I have them on hand. Obviously, never take identity or financial information with you, like social security cards, bank account numbers and pins.
  • I like to use Google docs to store more personal and private information.
  • Other things like toiletries and clothes, you can easily buy when you arrive and it will give you an opportunity to shop those as souvenirs.
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Stories from other travelers:

robbie025 –  Too much planning will kill the trip… In our case, on the second trip ever, we had a freaking schedule for everyday, from morning to the end of the day. It was soooooo exhausting. From that day, we don’t really plan any visits or daytrip. We have a list of some places we want to see, and we plan the day before. It is so much better!!

>Kimberly H  – 1. Traveling with your elderly grumpy dad.
C Smiggee:  I had a friend learn the hard lesson of bringing expensive items on trips like sunglasses.  Yep, left them in a rental car on the return.  Now I always just have my $10 version for travel and try to limit expensive stuff on trips as best I can.

rubymimosa : I think the worst thing that’s happened to me is grabbing a pickpocket’s wrist when he tried to cut my purse strap in Portugal, he threw a punch at my face (he must have been so scared). But even that wasn’t ruining, just a quick startle but it was all reflex stuff and the end was only a cut purse.

Les Aventures de Mélanie –  My first oversea travel was a solo travel to Japan, I got up late… missed my flight, one of my suitcase was lost…. but I stilled had a amazing time!

ABC hapa  – #1 losing my credit card in SanFran airport the day before my first trans-Pacific flight. I broke down crying, no one knew how to help me and they were freaked out I was crying, the airport phones weren’t working – I couldn’t figure them out. People were leaving for the day (after 5pm) I got hustled around from airline to airline to the police to lost and found moments after I lost it but I had exited the terminal so I couldn’t go back and look for it myself. No one wanted to deal with me. I just had to cancel the card and leave without it – eventually the replacement was sent to my mom and then mailed to me because I was out for a long time. #2 missing my flight from Korea to Japan – because I was late, the counters were closed and because I booked a really cheap flight I forfeited the ticket cost. Spent the night in the airport and bought a ticket for the next day – less stressful than the first scenario but costly and unpleasant. Not the most uncomfortable night I’ve had in an airport though. That would be when I tried to book a next day flight from Boston international on my phone but the ticket sale didn’t go through and we didn’t find out until the next morning. Boston has its benches all sat directly under freezing cold AC with uncomfortable arm rests so it’s basically impossible to sleep before you get past security. We ended up renting a car in the morning and driving.

Wayne Samuel – My experience with a credit card is I put it in a bank ATM at a railroad station in Paris. Then it won’t release my card. I had the account number written down. I was staying at a friend’s apartment in Paris. I called the Visa number and they arranged to send me a replacement card from London by messenger to the apartment I was staying at. They replaced it like the next day so that helped saved my vacation.

Ken Norris:  I never take any valuables with me….I bought a cheap flip phone for that reason!

Kirk Davidson:  My biggest scare was forgetting to take my bank card out of the ATM machine in downtown San Jose, Costa Rica, and it just ate it! Luckily it was right at the bank branch, so I returned the following business day with my passport, and got it back.

Siena Ruggeri: The airline we flew to Sicily on LOST my sister’s wheelchair for a couple days! Really, people? She was basically stuck in the hotel room until she got her chair back. If that wasn’t bad enough, they also lost all our bags for four days.

What are things that ruin your vacation? Let me know in comments below!

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Krissy Morris
July 10, 2019 11:40 am

The only thing that can ruin a good vacation is when I want to see a good place then my husband just wants to go fishing somewhere else.

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We always seem to have issues with our bank whenever we are away! Causes so much unnecessary stress. Right now some of our money has gone missing and trying to work that out but with time differences and expensive phone calls it’s so hard.

I think scary travel journey are a nightmare aswell. With bad driving and scary near misses it’s makes our heart miss a few beats.

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    @Finding Beyond So sorry to hear you’re encountering setbacks with your bank at the moment. That’s a bugger! I almost always have a make at least one phone call to my bank per trip– I do it via Skype where the rates are still pretty decent. Good luck to you!!!

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